A. If you could get away with one murder in your lifetime without any legal, social, or emotional repercussions, would you kill someone?
*I don’t think so. I would still be disturbed even without consequences.
B. What is your first thought when you receive a message on Tumblr, are you excited for the idea of someone from potentially the other side of the world wanting to talk to you or fearful that someone will criticize you?
*I shrug really without a first thought. It’s more curiosity than anything else.
C. Have you ever looked down on someone because you thought your religious views were superior?
*Sadly, yes. I’m still learning.
D. Would you rather know everything the universe has to offer but in exchange lose all emotions or remain the way you are now?
*Since knowing everything about anything is an impossibility, I would rather stay this highly emotional creature.
E. If you could live and be healthy without sleeping or eating/drinking, which would you cut out of your life?
*I can not sleep and be bitchy. I could not drink my iced tea and be bitchy. OR I could not have my kit kats - and be bitchy. Hard choice but I think I could go without my kit kats.
F. If you could take on the exact body and form of anyone else on Earth, who would it be?
*Henry Cavill’s girlfriend. Yes, I believe I’m obsessed with that man and damn proud of it.
G. Would you rather burn or freeze to death?
*Freeze. Somehow - in my mind - it seems less painful.
H. If it meant it would solve all world hunger, war, disease and bigotry, would you spend the rest of eternity in Hell?
*No. I would never spend eternity in hell for any reason.
I. Was the first crush in your life something you had or something someone had on you?
*Kindergarten he had on me and let the entire class know. I responded by hiding behind the fake fridge and crying.
J. Could you live without having sex ever (again) in exchange for eternal youth?
*No. Nobody, in reality, would want to stay young forever.
K. Have you ever watched a full length pornographic movie?
*Of course. Doesn’t everyone in college for girls night?
L. The Beatles or The Rolling Stones?
*Don’t really care. Before my time.
M. If you could have the ability to manipulate matter or energy, which would you choose?
*Matter. It would seem more interesting.
N. What was the worst nightmare you ever had?
*One I still have to this day. Always starts out as me waking up in a room that is completely dark. I think I’m awake until I go to get up and I’m held down by something. I never see what. After a few minutes it lets me go and I walk to the door that has light coming from under it. I open it and walk through but end up running from voices chasing me. No matter how fast I run they’re right on me mocking me. I run towards the daylight but something always grabs right before I get to it and I wake up kicking and crying. My poor hubbs :/ He always knows when I’m having this nightmare because I’m restless the entire time and sometimes swing at him. Happens every few months.
O. Would you rather spend one year with your one true love just to never see them again or the rest of your life with second best?
*My one true love. I don’t settle for second best - with anything.
P. All the sequels/remakes/adaptations/rip-offs in movies nowadays, good or bad?
Q. Would you rather be dirt poor and emotionally fulfilled in life or be rich beyond imagination and emotionally dissatisfied for life?
*There is no point in killing yourself inside for wealth. People that know me know that I run off my emotions and would gladly give up money to be happy.
R. Do you have any (secret) feelings of bigotry to any group of people?
*Not so much bigotry but confusion and curiosity to the trans community. I am always more standoffish to things I do not understand and this may make me less likely to approach or feel comfortable to that group of people.
S. Would you rather be the only person in the world that can read minds or have everyone else in the world be able to read minds except for your own?
*I would like to be uniquely disclosed. Let everyone else deal with everyone’s crap.
T. If everyone in the world would automatically only know one language, which language would you choose?
*English. Let’s make it easy for myself LOL
U. If you were old enough and not in a situation where it would be inappropriate, would you sleep with one of your (past) school teachers/professors?
V. A world without religion, good, bad, neutral?
*Everyone needs something to believe in. Why change that now.
W. The men’s rights movement, legitimate cause or laughable, and why?
*Completely useless. Last time I checked men always seemed to be the group that never had problems in any aspect of culture, life, history.
X. You can eliminate one of your five senses to substantially strengthen the others, which one and would you do it?
*I wouldn’t do it. I enjoy my senses far too much.
Y. Do looks mean anything to you? Don’t lie, could you fall in love with someone you thought was ugly?
*I have always fought this answer because I believe looks are what attract you initially. You do not approach, or respond, to someone you are not at least a little attracted to.
Z. Can you understand the mindset and logic used by the opposite spiritual opinion? An atheist understanding the belief in a higher power and vice versa.
*I can and have. Each opinion is placed for reasons only known to the person having them so who am I to displace them? Someone may not understand why I believe in God but they may understand that I look to him for guidance and faith and this helps me in many ways whether it be strength or courage. I may not agree with an aetheist but I do understand their lack of understanding of anything they cannot see.
The news is out ~ we’re engaged and everyone was excited. Everything was going perfect.. until I had a moment to think. The date was picked, invitations were scanned and plans were brewing. Was it really what we wanted?
The plan was to get married, small ceremony with our parents, then have a huge blow out of a reception with the rest of our families and friends, get a days rest and off on our honeymoon we go. Things were being done and actions made to make this happen. How hard could it be to plan a simple get together and a trip?
Was six months enough time? Were the invitations good enough? How many people were coming? Where do I start with decorating? Before I realized it my to do list had swelled to three times its original length. We wrote down everyone’s name that was invited and already confirmed to be present. That’s A LOT of people and we didn’t even get the chance to send out the invitations or get RSVPs from almost half the list. Was I freaking out? Some would assume so.
Besides all this, I would also admit I am gun shy. Theres a reason I never made that gigantic step into lifelong commitment. Was I scared? Did I wanna run? Was my heart racing from the very beginning? YES. But this time I still knew that while I was petrified, I still love this man with all my heart and we were committed to this. My fear is not enough to cancel.
So the update? The wedding/reception/honeymoon has been moved from 6 months to 8 months from now. We are starting to look at places and speak to people about venues to hold our reception. Our honeymoon is the same place and I still can’t wait! (Lol) More people can come to the reception because we will be looking for a space that can hold the numbers. The next few months will be jammed with plans going into action and hopefully stress off our shoulders since we have given ourselves more room to breathe.
Lets commence with the planning of our future & the start of our lives becoming one.
With our recent proposal and the excitement setting in, so are the nerves. The checklist for a future bride seems to be never ending but I welcome it! I will be marrying the man of my dreams and diving in head first to make our special day something to always look back on with a smile and great memories.
We got engaged privately, announced it to our families the following weekend and began planning. It’s been a little over a week and we have a date picked out. The scheduling of it all? Friday marriage. Saturday reception. Monday through Saturday honeymoon. T-Minus 6 months!! Many things are piling on my plate as I wrote down everything that needs to be done: Dress, food, theme, registry, who is invited, who won’t be invited, who will raise hell when they find out they’re not invited? I tackled one of the first things that came to mind: Invitations. Those are necessary and I’m finding out QUITE expensive. But without them, it wouldn’t be traditional and no one would have the date/time cards, I would be swamped with messages/calls about every question on where/when (Even though I already am!) so invitations are VITAL! I did some looking around and found a wonderful website that had many beautiful styles that I fell in love with.
"White vintage with ribbon"
This one jumped out because it’s traditional. The texture and design are elegant for a wedding and is in the running. The price is also a competitor. A bonus is that there are so many colors for the ribbon to pick from for the color theme we haven’t chosen yet (LOL) All around great choice!
"Wildly In Love"
This one stands out because it is unique. While more than likely not chosen, I love the graphics of it all and how it would stand out in a pile! Price wise-I’m not willing to pay that much for a picture of a mountain.
"Radiant-Mint Faux Glitter"
This one is a beauty! The faux glitter caught my eye, duh! Too bad I couldn’t capture the moving file because it put me in a trance; as it would for all my guests receiving this elegant piece of art. I’m in love. The price, though pricey, would be worth it.
The others are beautiful in their own right, but “Unlocking Love” is in front of the pack. It comes in white pearl shimmer matte & black lettering. Classical, traditional, beautiful, well priced. Besides, who wouldn’t wanna be opening such a pretty design!
Now that we have a set date, the planning has begun & is in full force as we tried to tackle the very tiny details to the most important parts. I was truly blessed when I contacted a great friend of mine to vent. I had completely forgotten then she was in this business! She jumped on the bandwagon and the past few days have totally flipped upside down from feeling as though I had nowhere to hide to now feeling free and pressure-less.
Today we spoke for a few hours and she brought up the cake. CAKE! Cake? Oh $%@#, cake… I instantly thought traditional and my mind went to a three tiered vanilla cake with fondant and icing. Yay. I wasn’t so excited. I was… bored. I should know my friend better than this because she certainly knew me saying, “Your reaction is exactly what I expected”. She sent me this.
A cupcake tree cake! I knew I had bestowed my trust in her for a reason. She had connections in the city and would be able to provide 150 cupcakes for my guests topped with a miniature cake on top. Now my excitement level was rising. How beautiful are these ~ but better yet, how unique! I fell in love.
So many styles to fit into our colors and the options were endless. Every time she opened her mouth I was liking every idea. Her confidence in making this wedding a reality is making my fear disappear faster than I ever imagined. Here is a themed cupcake tree. While it isn’t our theme, it makes that event pop. I love it.
Classy. Most men do not like purple, which is one reason our theme isn’t, but this is almost enough to ignore the colors because it is so beautiful.
I’m sure this tree brought some life into this event and was certainly the area wanting all the attention! Gorgeous. While these are not close to the one we chose, they are beautiful in their own rights and makes us anxious to taste, see and finally have ours!!
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